Loving Others like Family

Love each other with genuine affection, and take delight in honoring each other. Romans 12:10

The apostle Paul wrote, "Love each other with genuine love" (Romans 12:10). The terms he used convey a love that is "full of tenderness" or "affectionate." Actually, his first term "love" translates a compound Greek word that literally means, "love of the family." The word translated genuine affection is a familiar Greek word, philadelphia. It means literally "love of the brethren." I find it quite intriguing that Paul employs two words--love of family and love of brothers--to communicate the need for commitment in loving.
The deep affection and abiding commitment made between natural family members, like the Chicago mother toward her children, should be expressed in the spiritual family as well. We are to love our brothers and sisters of faith, as we love our brothers and sisters of blood. Brotherly kindness is an affection that family members have for one another 


Jesus has given authority to the entire world to judge whether or not we are genuine believers on the basis of our love for fellow believers. Love is the badge that identifies us as followers of Jesus Christ. Any time we do not show love toward fellow believers, we forfeit our right to proudly represent Jesus Christ in the world.

People around us who are bored by doctrine and can't fathom theology instinctively understand love. People look at Christians before they look at our creed. They form their opinions about our religion when they see how we behave. If they like the melody, they will listen to our words. If what they hear is discord, then the lyrics of our faith seldom register in their lives.

As believers in Jesus Christ we need to make a clear, unequivocal commitment to loving each other as a family, for our own sake and for our witness to a watching world.